Jeene Ki Raah - 4
No Comparison please!
Avoid comparison between you & others. Someone may be better than you in one field. At the same time, you may be better than the same person in some other field. Many times, you may not be aware about your own strengths & qualities.
So, you are neither superior nor inferior to anyone.
I realised this during the shooting of "Kis Kiski Kismat". I was feeling inferior to Dharmendra ji, as I am a novice in acting. I was nervous & unable to give the right take.
He encouraged me and told me that don't compare yourself with Dharmendra. You are interacting with Mr. Mehta, the character. After this, I was able to give the OK take.
I also realised that my knowledge over share market & operating a computer is better than his.
That day, I learnt that all of us are equals if we take a wholistic view.
Avoid comparing others to others also. Ask any siblings, who love and care for each other. Yet, if parents compare them, they don't like it.
Arun Chitlangia
