This is for Senior Citizens

 What do you expect from your children and Grand Children?

Some of the expectations are for you, the self
Some of the expecteation are for their welfare, becuase you lov ehtm and want them to live a good life!

What are your personal expectatation?

1. They should take your care in weak health
2. They should send money when you are in accute need
3. They should respect you
4. They should spend time with you
5. They should maitain family rituals, culture & traditions
6. They understand your feelings, emotions and your problems

One question...
Have you done these to your parents which you expect from your children?
Chances are that they will treat you the same as you ttreated your parents!

Todays generation is too materialistic as per your standards.
Accept the possibility where they may like to do things for you, but cannot do.
They can send you money, but they cannot stay with you
They cannot give you time. In fact, they dont have time for themselves
You cant demand these, you can subtly steal it.

Their time and attention is not your right, byt  previledge

 

Generation Gap

Greetings from Arun Chitlangia

I have cancelled you!

When I heard this phrase for the first time, I was confused! I am not you Pitzza order, which you can cancel! I tired to find the real mening of this phrase and I discovered that it means:

to completely reject and stop supporting someone, especially because they have said something that offends you. 

You must have noticed that each generation carries some complaints, dissatisfaction with the previous generation and also with the next generation.

The points of difference may be Lifestyle, Spending money, Fashion and clothing, eating habits, language and so on.

Have you ever thought why it is happening with every generation after generation?

One cause I can identify is the FEEZING OF MINDSET.

My mind, mental preferences, habits, and expectations get frozen in a period of my peak performance!

Be Proactive!

We like comfort zone!
We like to play safe!
We don't take risk of getting blames & criticism!

Yet, we expect success!

Let us analyse the blocks which do not encourage us to be pro-active.

Recollect some of the incidence in your life, where you needed to be the first one to take action. Yet, fo some reason or the other, you preferred to take a back seat!

Cyber Safety

• No need to click on a link or QR to receive money. It is the sender who needs to feed PIN and          Password or click a link/QR
• Use old model Key Mobile to receive SMS OTPs
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Theory of Enough

Power of Body Language

Credit: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/power-positive-body-language-ian-hunt/

Keeping the politics aside, look at the 2 videos and compare the message people receive, irrespective of spoken words.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tb9ucwFXydM  6:25 seconds onwards, notice:

1. Right hand movement
2. Moving the Mike by left hand
3. Smile
4. Face expression

What is the meaning one may draw?

Now have a look at this one.
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/eJrY6neXv6c 

1. Body posture
2. Pace of the walk 

You and I can use the power of Body Language.
1. Convey the message you intend to convey powerfully!
2. Understand other people's body language and draw more realistic and beneficial meanings.

ARUN CHITLANGIA

How to Manage Expectations for a Happier Life!